Into-me-see

Today I look at today as a beginning of a new possibility to create a life I deserve. One on happiness, playfulness and adventure. I got this out of my seminar. I got that I am hiding. It has opened my eyes to my world in a new way of believing my world can be different. Working on myself for the past years, makes me understand more of why we do the things we do. We create our own world.

The world we live has much more potential then it use to have in the old days. We had the power to reinvent ourselves at the very core of our beings if we chose to do our inner work. Many people don't understand how the Landmark work can help this planet get to a higher level of consciousness. I believe it can and in fact, it is doing it, one person at a time. Broken families are  mended, relationships are restored, fallen friendships flourish again, kids are reconnecting to there parents. It's amazing to see the healing that is happening in this program. I'm almost thinking of redoing the Forum again in January.

My money issues are getting dealt with. I can now see what I am doing with the money I earn and making conscious choices that help me to improve the quality of my life.  I am actually making money online. I invest my time into this program and I have taken out money to see if I could and I can. I am investing all my earnings towards this program. I invested $100 and I click my ads everyday and buy packs morning and night when I have enough money in my earnings. I have been doing this for the past 7 months and I have earned a little over thirteen hundred dollars. I get more return from this then I do with my bank. I can help you get started if you are interested. just sign up and I'll get you going  This is the first time I have ever invested money  online and seeing it grow. It's an awesome feeling. https://www.mypayingads.com/ref/124072

I have off today, but I am planning on getting on the Leadership call. I learn a lot from listening to the leadership in the group. It is important to stay on the court which helps me to stay focused on my seminar. I may think of getting involved in the leadership program later on. I also suggested that they think about getting the money seminar out again. I would definitely  think of taking that one. The program is funny though. Sometime you take a seminar to clear something in your life that you want clarity on like sex and intimacy and you end up healing a different part of your life , like money issues. My intimacy with money has improved a lot, because I now look closer to where I want to use my money.

Intimacy means being known and knowing another means being interested. Into-me-see.


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Reinventing a new design

The last three weeks have been pushing me to my limit. Having to fly home unexpectedly for my adopted Mom's funeral brought on a lot of stuff I had to deal with that I had not considered. I was adopted in a family of 4 kids. My adopted Mom was 87 and I wanted to be with my family, but did not know how I was going to manage finding the money to fly home and back. I also was fearful of losing my job which I could not afford. But without expecting anything to happen, my sister in law knew someone that worked for Westjet and they got me a ticket and I didn't even have to pay them in return. Angels at work for sure.

Being home with my sister's and bother's was stressful because I don't think the way I use to and I could see that they were struggling to have a conversation because I wouldn't get involved in their stories. There was a lot of self restraint on my part. My brother was the executor and we all got learn what papers need to be in order if something happens to any one of us. So I was pressured to find a way to ask my birth mother if she had all the papers she needed when the time comes for her. She is 89 and has been declining a lot health wise. I was relieved to find out that she did in fact got all the papers I need for when the time comes.  I could finally relax once I got back on the plane.

I'm back at my job and engaging myself in my Sex and Intimacy seminar. I have learned that my act around sex is hiding. And this morning I discovered another act by being on a leadership call for our group leader because he couldn't make it. My other act is " Going it alone" This seminar is teaching me that I need to look at all these things if I'm to ever begin to think of having another relationship with anyone. I keep mentally blocking myself by telling myself that this program is not about finding a new relationship. It's about having a deep conversation with my thoughts around the areas of sex and intimacy.

Engaging openly in a conversation with someone about sex and intimacy is challenging for most people. Same as money. I have finally caught up on all my bills and have been putting a few dollars in the bank in my savings to start a prudent reserve, as my friend calls it.. I will get a very small inheritance which will allow me to sell my gas guzzling SUV and buy a more economical vehicle, plus I am also planning on moving much closer to my work. That way I will save even more on gas money, Sex and money are both huge suggests. And if we refuse to talk about them with someone that we feel we can trust, we give those subject more power then imagined.

Once I started openly talking about how I felt my sex act was affecting me and my future, I felt a small opening of possibilities. As long as I keep my act a secret and don't talk about it, it has power over me by controlling my life. It keeps me stuck in never taking the risk of engaging in a conversation with men, Once I learn how to stand on my own with my act, it has no power. It destroys my joy. I think it was Plato who once said " An unexamined life is not worth living" What I believe he was referring to was, that if we don't take the time to look at the way we are thinking, and how it is affecting our lives, we miss out on the opportunity to deeply live.

I have felt most alive when I have discovered things about myself that I never knew existed in me. This seminar has thought me that I am human, first of all, and that I make mistakes. I was designed by default without my knowing from the very first breath I took. We all were. Our job is to reinvent ourselves on a level of love and compassion to help those who are open to the work. It's the toughest work I've ever done, but it has been the most rewarding.

Today I am grateful to the design I was given, so that I can look at it and decide , " Is it the design I an stuck with forever, or do I have a choice to change my design" My answer is always . As long as I"m breathing, I have the power to re invent a new and more inspiring design.

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Changing views

It has been an interesting week. I am now in the third session of my Landmark Sex and Intimacy seminar. It is shifting things in my life that I would have not imagined. From my landlady accusing me of having a sexual relationship because of the misinterpretation of the title of my seminar. This has caused me to look at my confrontational issues with people in authority that stem from my childhood years.

It is a real challenge for me to speak with people that I feel looks at me like I have less value in this world then they do. It's also disturbing to see people use tools to help them disguise their dark side by using tools in their lives to make people think they live in the light. I am seeing this with the landlady I live with

I cannot express the value I am  getting in this seminar . The insights I am seeing in myself regarding my perception and views on what I beleive is a true honest relationship that stems on integrity and honesty with another person is beyond measure. I have discovered my deep resignation towards ever being in another relationship. This holds me back from discovering my sexual feminine side that I have caged up for decades

I've also discovered some hope by sharing openly how I view men with my group call each week. We have three men in our group which was very intimidating to me. How am I going to be able to share openly with these men who are strangers and not feel judged. Well I was surprised to see how supportive they all were as I shared. They actually did understand why I would view men the way I do.

We cannot develop an emotional backbone with most men by pointing not providing a safe space for them to express their views on sex and intimacy. By sharing openly and listening unconditionally it allows them to see how why they have unfulling relationships with their patners . They say that sex is only 10 percent of a relationship. You could have great sex with each other and disagree on the other 90 percent of the relationship. If a relationship is build on the foundation of sex the integrity of the relatiinship will eventually desolve because there is no real room for growth.

So I am am hopeful that men are capable of having the courage to be brave and vulnerable in sharing intimately and having a deep conversation. This would be a huge shift on our planet.

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New Challenges Builds Growth

It has been too long since I last blogged. I apologize. I have been so busy with work and with my Landmark seminar. Plus new things that have surfaced since.

I am enjoying my seminar. It is shifting many new layers in my view on sex and intimacy. Since I have moved to my new place, just renting a room at this time, I am learning new things about the woman that I am renting from. 

Their are people in this world that try to prevent us from moving forward by playing this vital part in the system of my growth. Because I mentioned to her that I was in this siminar, I realize that might have been a mistake . Sometimes people react with their point of view on a topic that is not discussed openly because they might be in a different place in their lives and it will bring up some stuff for sure. 

I had asked my friend if she would be open to take her car and drive out to Banff so we could show my roommate before he heads back east. Well my intentions were good until my landlady found out that I had not invited her along. The sh_t hit the fan and she started accusing me of having sexual relations with my roommate. I was in disbelief as to how far she took the conversation. 

My life is my life. I don't believe I need to invite everybody into it. So what I saw in this process so far is that the anger that she felt had nothing to do with my not inviting her. She was angry before that and I just triggered something and I got the hit. 

When people react in this way, it's about them. They re-acted to what is happening in the moment because it triggered their stuff. It could have been that she felt left out, not fit in, rejected in some way. 

I strongly believe that this situation was divinely orchestrated to allow both of us to look at that part in ourselves that is screaming , " what's wrong with me? That I wasn't part of this adventure"

It will be interesting to see how this unfolds as I work on my issues around sex and intimacy. Her accusations have lead her to believe that " we" need to move in together as she doesn't rent out to couples. I'm feel disappointed by all of this. It seems that she is reflecting to me my trust issues are relationships. Something that I'm sure I will be looking at in my seminar.

This situation also challenges me with moy money situation since I'm finally almost caught up on everything. Moving would set me back again. Darn it!

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It's Blog-a -log time LOL Ya Think!

Boy is it a challenge to blog everyday. I have been very busy keeping up with my budget and trying to last till the following paycheck without going too far behind and needing to borrow any money from people. So far, I'm doing great.

I have one more $150 payment to get through with my credit card then that payment goes down to $75 until it is paid off. Wow. I also got some great news at work. My boss offered me a new position as a receptionist and I'm getting more hours, it's Monday to Friday and I get my weekends off.  I also do healing work and I got a new client to work with once a week which brings me an extra $50 a week.

Also I am starting my new seminar with Landmark this week on sex and intimacy. I am excited about learning what limiting beliefs I have around these topics. It will last ten weeks, three hours or more a week. The amount of coaching I get in these seminars is profound. So many insights into why I live the way I do and how I have total control to change it. That's the exciting part about it.

My next step is to work on saving some money. I did get some sad news last night, that my mom is in the hospital with kidney failure. And if she goes, it would set me back again if I have to fly down.
But I can't think of that right now.

I am so proud of myself for sticking with my daily budget book and taking the time to right down what it is that I spend my money on everyday. It takes me five minutes and just the act of doing this simple exercise begins to rebuild the muscle of integrity in system. By holding myself accountable for my actions, I make different choices that lead my life in a much more positive direction. There is hope.

Today I have to go up to my new job and get the key so I can open on Monday morning  I still have to work the late shift at my old job until he can find someone that want that shift. Then I will have my weekends off. I have about $60 left with my $50 session on Tuesday that will give me $110 till payday. I often wonder what the people of today are holding with no jobs. I am so grateful that I am working full time. But I also believe that I have  stuck to my intentions of staying focused and positive about getting my life back on track. And I think I'm doing a pretty darn good job, if I do say so myself.

No I'm not rolling in the dough yet, as some would say, but I do have the wealth of understanding that what I need to work on so that I can make life work for me. You have to start somewhere, and sometimes the best place to start is from the bottom. When your flat on your back, the only way is to look up. Life changes. Circumstances changes. There is always a way out of your suffering. This is what gives us the power to learn new things about life. Walking towards this freedom to prosperity is a daily task. When you hear people say, it's hard work, they are not talking physically, they are talking mentally, emotionally, it is hard work. Because you must change the way you do things if you what things to change. There is no other way. People who work hard for a living, is living hard at work.

So that's my speel for today, will try to get back on writing track.

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I'm on my way to Financial Freedom

Well it has been a few interesting days. I have two more paychecks to go through with getting my credit card up to date. I have recently learned that my credit card company has closed my account and have taken off the interest that I need to pay. If I miss a payment, my account goes to the credit bureau and I will have an R9 record. I am planning to pay this off so that I don't get this rating on my credit score.

When I have the last two $150 paid up to get me up to date with my payments, I will only have to pay $75 per month as payment. I have another prepaid credit card that can hold up to ten thousand dollars, so my plan is to keep doing the $150 per month but split it in two and pay one on each credit card. This way I an paying off my credit card and saving money on my other credit card. I am looking forward to this day. Sept 1 will be the last payment on what I owe. My boss also told me yesterday that he is changing our pay structure to instead of being paid on the first and the fifteenth. We will be paid direct deposit and paid every two weeks. I like this pay structure better.

When we get paid direct deposit, that means I will have at least an extra $50 a month to play with instead of paying Money Mart to cash my checks. I can buy gift cards at my workplace and keep them as a contingency fund when I need money for something. It has been such a long time since I have felt this good about where I'm at in my finances. The job is working out great so far. I'm not making a tin of money , but it is paying my bills, and that is important to me. When I owe people money, I don't have a good feeling inside.

I found a great place to walk the other day to get my mind off things, like living in the city. I such a country girl. I sat by the water for two hours and it felt so close to being at home. I miss seeing my family and they miss seeing me. I just haven't had the chance to get my finances together enough to go home for a visit. It's been almost 7 years. I have to save around a thousand dollars just to cover my bills, and then I have the cost of the flight that my mom said she would pay. Living with them for five days would be enough to handle. Plus I would need a car to get away when I need to.

So today I have sixty dollars left till Monday when we get paid. I have to pay my cel phone bill $106, my credit card $150 and my rent $450 plus I owe money to Noor still but I'm only sending her what I can. I also might have a healing session with my old landlady so that means I can make $60 there, And I was suppose to get a call for two house cleaning of $50 each which I haven't heard of yet.

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Counting the days

I am counting the days till next payday. I went to my bank and found out that it didn't cost me nearly as much as I thought it would. So I have to be careful where I spend my money still, because I'm getting a bit less hours this week at work then last week. Instead of going into work on a few days a 10 am , I only go in at 11 am. A few hours makes a difference. But I have something to look forward to this October. The minimum wage is going from eleven dollars an hour to twelve dollars. So I will get a fifty cent raise for sure. But a dollar would be nice.

Money. It is such a huge stress in our daily lives. I see people at work spend so much money on lottery tickets, it almost makes me sick. People wasting money like that just to hope they win something. I buy tickets too, but I spend maybe five dollars when the jackpot is really big. Even if I won a couple of thousand would change my life. I don't waste all my paycheck on one lottery.

How do you stay motivated around wnating to save money? I feel like the harder I try not to spend..the more I want to stay home and do nothing cause the monute I go out...I have to look at spending money on something.

What if I chose not to spend any money today? I wish I had some support of somekind to guide me and encourage me to keep going forward. I just wonder sometimes if it's worth the effort of saving your money at all.


I keep adding meaning to money. Why do I do that? I attach meaning to money when I believe that I get value out of money for something that is significant on my life. And when I do this..it creates inner tension because I can't relax when I think about money. I live in constant fear of not having enough. So it's the fear that drives money away. Need to tap on this more.


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